I also wonder sometimes if that's a projection. I wonder if somewhere in all that fog, the thought process goes ... If 2T were treating me this way, this is how I would think and feel about her. Therefore, since I'm treating her this way, this is how she thinks and feels about me.
This is an interesting idea, 2T. I've often felt that H was projecting thoughts and ideas onto me. I've also noted that others here have similar stories where their S seems to be projecting. I wonder if it is more the MLCer that keeps their thoughts to themselves that tends toward projecting because there is no one to bounce ideas off of or call them out on it; or if even those who share with others do it. I tend to reverse H's words a lot to see if that fits better when thinking of his projecting, by the way. For instance, "You don't like me" when surrounded by stupid examples of minor irritations, becomes "I don't like you". "I've held you back" and "I made you miserable" make more sense as "You held me back" and "You've made me miserable" when you take into account that he can't really read my mind.
M-51 H-54 2D-27 and 25 M-26 yrs Bombshell and IHS 7-29-15 He moved out 10-3-15 D filed 1-27-16 D final 10-27-16
