Tim, sorry to hear but also glad. Sounds like the boys are going to be siding with you more and more. Wouldn't you think your WW would be "happy" if she's with a new guy? Because, you know - you're so terrible her life must have improved vastly.

I guess I should be grateful I have as little contact as I do with the WW. However, it sounds like it's barely getting to you - where a couple of months ago it would have been very different.

Not sure how fast the D process is in your state, in CA it's pretty fast. I should be halfway through at this point. Assuming of course the W or the W's L ever pick the next court date. I've assumed since her week and a half off with the OM went so well, she'd have been pushing to speed things up. The dumping of my stuff at the front doorstep would tend to reinforce that. We'll see.

I'm madly studying away right now - I've got to double down and get my license. I've been terrible. It's still hard for me to concentrate, but I've got to break past that. GAL is helping everybody else - I just have more to do to get there. Wish I had a jogging buddy!

Have a great weekend!


Me: 58
Her: 59
Kids: 0
Dog: 1
ILYBINILWY: 9/15
D Bomb: 1/11/16 (found out filed)
Verified OM: 1/11/16
Moved out: 1/11/16 (thought it was temporary)