I'm sorry we can't meet for a meal, etc. Are there any "divorced dad" groups on your town? A friend of mine went to one. He did not love it but he did see others getting lots of value.
A church near me ran a course called "Divorce Care". I went to 3 of the 9 sessions. It was not for me - but I can see people getting something out of it.
M:50 W:53 MR:20 D:21 S:17 S:11 BD-Sept 2015 Suspected PA Sept 2015-Confronted W & OM Dec 2015 Actually EA In house Sep:Jan/16-May 2016 W moved out:May 22 2016 OM-Intro Oct/17-On scene July/Aug 2017