It seems like shes got one foot out the door and the other foot in... it was her decision to move out (despite me really wanting her to stay - although I didn't communicate that) so it's really a question if I push her that extra bit to move out in which case we have a real separation vs. allowing her to stay and hope towards R. Part of me thinks the separation will really wake her up, but it could also push her over the edge.

A question for you all - They say believe nothing what she says, how do you respond when you're pretty sure your W is being dishonest to you? do you just shrug it off? answer sarcastically? call her on it or play along?

Me: 40 W: 45
T: 13, M: 11
1 D: 9

Suspect A 6/15
ILBINILWY 8/15, and 3/16
EA/PA Discovered 3/16
EA admitted 3/16
W Moved out 4/16
W opens R talk and says A over 1/17