Thanks SadHub. I'm sure she is going to be mad for the next few days - so I will try and give her space. If she pulls the trigger and moves out etc - sooner it's on her.
Thanks for the quote. I'm not sure what the best action is right now. I know that if I let her hide in the basement for 3 more months the situation would have deteriorated. So now that she is in the main part of the house - let's see what happens.
M:50 W:53 MR:20 D:21 S:17 S:11 BD-Sept 2015 Suspected PA Sept 2015-Confronted W & OM Dec 2015 Actually EA In house Sep:Jan/16-May 2016 W moved out:May 22 2016 OM-Intro Oct/17-On scene July/Aug 2017