WAW is angry and filing divorce

[SH_]

As I read through many of the witch's out here there always seems to be an EA/PA.

Now I know that may be an over generalization on my part, but are there any out there where the WAW did not have that? There just does not seem to be that in my sitch and I have not snooped, but the obvious things scream that the EA/PA do not exist here. I ask as I know Micheles definition of this does not include WW, but any out there that have gone through this? My sitch seems to have unraveled so fast and furiously that I frequently get stuck in thought patters trying to solve it, when the logical side of my brain says to stop. There is no way to go back and solve it.

Anyway I am ranting on, because it is taking great effort to keep focused and knowing someone out there that may be able to relate with some advice for keeping my emotions, depression and focus on me and being a better me and better dad and GALing would be welcome.

Grrr, the brain/heart/gut control is a tremendous challenge right now because of the guilt and fear that envelops my being each day.