Well - took a big step today. It might backfire. As per a chapter in DB - change anything.

Thanks to my eldest moving back into the house. I said let's change things up. I insisted that we switch. She moves back into the master bedroom and I will move into the basement. Needless to say she is ticked off. It's one more thing I'm controlling, etc.

She was hiding in the basement, trying to tell herself she was my prisoner. I'm not sure if it is backwards or forwards step but it's a step.

My eldest really is throwing a match into a room full of gasoline.

As Michele says - continuing to do the same thing is going to get me the same results.

I'm not sure if this is a 180/Last Resort or a nail in my coffin but - we will see what happens.


M:50
W:53
MR:20
D:21
S:17
S:11
BD-Sept 2015
Suspected PA Sept 2015-Confronted W & OM Dec 2015
Actually EA
In house Sep:Jan/16-May 2016
W moved out:May 22 2016
OM-Intro Oct/17-On scene July/Aug 2017