Feeling he's in MLC, but in D process

[Pax_luv]

Hi Ciluzen,
I've been reading along and have to tell you that I admire the strength and composure you have... The fact that you and your h even go skiing together is... Wow! I don't know if I respect my h that much anymore to even want to spend time with him.

Thr martyr comment is interesting. I kind of got that, too. The difference is, h told all his new friends that we were completely done before he even told me! One night I overheard a phone convo with one of his female "friends" - he was saying with zero emotion "yeah, my life is going to change pretty drastically in the next few weeks." I mean, he had this script in his mind how things were going to play out and he made damn sure it happened according to plan. And I think it did. He did everything to push me away. Anyway, I don't mean to hijack.... I just find it interesting that the reason for splitting is never concrete and based on something "worth" divorcing over. It's a decision they feel they have to make because it aligns with the story they're writing for themselves.