Sotto, re OW: I don't know if there's a consistent woman right now. We don't have enough interaction for me to know anything and truthfully I don't care to know. I know he's out there dating. (That was his solution to being alone during our 4 month trial separation... His new 23 year old best friend just wasn't cutting it, so he needed to go out and date). Wtf???? Truthfully the signs of an EA were there before BD, but he's such a sneaky dickens and an impressive liar, I believed that his interactions were always harmless.
Re: divorce- I just might be the one to file.... And it might be soon. I don't want too much more time to pass where it may affect the financials of things. We had the d talk a couple months ago and he went crazy when I told him that I wanted what the state says I should get- nothing more nothing less. He was so angry!!! I don't get it, this is divorce, does he think I'm just going to say "ok it didn't work, please keep the house and the furniture, and I'll just mosey along as if this never happened. Byee!"
What I'm scared of he is a master manipulator and I've watched him in action. It's not about playing to win, it's about doing ANYTHING not to lose. he's shown some of his cards through this and that makes me paranoid.
Anyway, on a happier note. It's a gorgeous weekend! I went out last night with a girlfriend- we stuffed our faces with wine and cheesecake, watched Deadpool (stupid yet funny) and then this morning I got up and got a five mile run in. Next up: cleaning and errands .
Me- 30's H- 40's T-10 M-5 I moved out b/c he wanted space- June 15 D filed by H: September 16
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