Melo, I have provided all those things you are missing to my WW and yet she still betrayed me. It's their waywardness that is to blame.
I owned a nice house in a great neighborhood before I met WW, married her, she never had to worry about money, took two or three vacations a year. Yet she still betrayed me with the guy who wouldn't stand up for her 20 years ago to his family.
Life is not fair.


Me-LBH, 48
Spouse-WW, 48
Married for 19 years
Son, 12
BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding)
BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA)
WW filed D February 2016
WW moved out April 2016