Despite W moving out and spending the night on Thurs at the other place she's oddly enough back at the house while we are away for the weekend and wants to be there when we get home on Sun. That's not what we previously agreed on.... of-course we haven't told D yet either, so I think that's weighing on her.

She's really missing D and wants to see her Sunday. How many of you have used your kids as leverage to get back their WAW? I want her to come home for the MR, but if the D is a gateway or a catalyst to start that process is that OK? She has shown some signs of wanting to work on it (talked about ending contact with OM, Travel etc.) but nothing concrete yet.

My initial thoughts are as long as there is still the IM she's not welcome, she doesn't seem to be taking this separation seriously and sort of ad-hoc.

Me: 40 W: 45
T: 13, M: 11
1 D: 9

Suspect A 6/15
ILBINILWY 8/15, and 3/16
EA/PA Discovered 3/16
EA admitted 3/16
W Moved out 4/16
W opens R talk and says A over 1/17