It's good to feel legally and financially safe for you and the kids. Please get your legal and financial ducks in a row.
And you really are voicing out what I am feeling. The indignation that my life and kid's life are changed so drastically by xh's affair and outburst yet xh gets to move on with his life with TP, without suffering any consequences.
But Jjb, you can and will get to abetter Place because you had the advice that I didnt have.
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.