I guess i am curious why allow the drama to have this affect on the new relationship.
Is there more to this?
I tried not to let it affect the relationship. Since we had such a close friendship, I thought it was something that we would walk through and support each other together. But the non-stop actions of my ex got to her; caused anger that started as anger at the ex, but then spilled on to me. She was especially angry that I had not handled this years ago when it first started. I was in a different place back then and am paying the price for not being as strong as I am now and standing up to the ex.
That being said, I am trying to minimize any future damage that may occur until things get resolved or at least calmed down with the ex.
