WAW is angry and filing divorce

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SadHub,

My wife's EA/PA has made her very angry at times.
She projects her own moral bankruptcy on me. Spewing and using any/every hint of a being a bad father as yet another brink in the wall of D.

I'm learning to ignore it, but it's tough. Lots of emotionally charged texts, then arrows over the wall to get me to spar in verbal jousting.

I'm trying at every opportunity to pick up my ball and walk away. The game is no fun when there isn't someone to play with.

GAL'ing will include doing things for yourself and for D17. Can you do some special things with her and your other daughter?

I am guilty of spending extra time at work, since I just changed jobs, but I spend less time at home with WW. She says she's using all the extra time away from home as ammo in front of the judge. We've already agreed to 50/50 custody, and it's in the divorce paperwork already, so her telling me she's going to tell the judge is just pure smoke.

It sounds like you and your WW have had issues in the past. So have I. I'm working on them. You are, too. Our WW's are not.

One of the toughest lessons I've learned is that I can't fix my broken WW. I love her, but she is her own circus, and her own monkeys. Being able to detach enough to watch the train wreck while it's in front of you, but not get hurt is very challenging.

Let God talk to you in your life. Hear Him whisper to you. You'll know you're on the right track when you hear Him whisper.