Vanilla you are a ray of sunshine in your posts for me with ideas and your support. Have I said thank you?
Well, Thank you times a million.

I will have to get a recording device. That is a good idea under the circumstances.

I will start avoiding the private conversations. Those are my fault as I want to shield my girls from this, but I may just need to have the L talk from here out, even though she has dragged her feet on that. I have tried to remain true to being open and honest with the WAW, but I am now seeing, that my W of 19 years is not the WAW of the past couple of months.

I will look for Mustardseeds thread. All the advice and ideas I can get is going to help me.

I will focus a ton on keeping the buttons about of reach and fortunately I do not drink or take any substance, so no problems there.

Thank you again and again V for your support and regular check ins with me.


Me 46 Former W 46
D19 D7
BD Feb 2016
WAW moves out 4/16/16
D final 6/1/2017

It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine