Any advice how to validate when speaking about things related to divorce. Wants divorce, but financial benefits of being married. Wants 50/50 parenting but wants 6 weeks of vacation time as she is a teacher and knows I don't have that much vacation time available.
I am struggling to keep it together because she keeps hitting with all the button pushing and now claims I am ruining my family life because I advised her that an inheritance I received a year ago should not be divided in the community assets. I am advised to protect me and my kids, but then in doing so I give more fuel for the fire.
I feel like I am damned if I do and damned if I don't. ugh. frown


Me 46 Former W 46
D19 D7
BD Feb 2016
WAW moves out 4/16/16
D final 6/1/2017

It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine