Vapo - Like my thread says. I'm on the lookout for practical ideas that can help me with my 180/Last Resort. I buy into the concepts but I have a hard time seeing the forest through the tree's and taking solution orientated action.

To be honest, its from conversations with the W and her voice in my head that has gotten me this far.

Further, looking at:

the to do list of things around the house list and
the list of Things I've always wanted to do" helps e.g. I'm going to get my motorcycle license.

Now that conversations with the W are slowing to a trickle and I'm looking harder for ways that will help me break the old patterns. Also, I'm running out of to do's and I can't afford to do the major projects.

Slowly some of the subtle/personal issues are coming up and some new issues too. Those I'm trying to nip in the bud.

That's why I was hoping to hear from people - the I wish I had or When I ... it brought me..

I think good ideas and motivation can come from anywhere.

What do you think?

M


M:50
W:53
MR:20
D:21
S:17
S:11
BD-Sept 2015
Suspected PA Sept 2015-Confronted W & OM Dec 2015
Actually EA
In house Sep:Jan/16-May 2016
W moved out:May 22 2016
OM-Intro Oct/17-On scene July/Aug 2017