I was reading on the newcomers about if the WAS/WS is truly done they are indifferent. H has spent most of his day trying to sort out things for the same of our house and he could have as well left it with me, but I guess it isn't being indifferent to me but he sees it as business and it has to be dealt with. Also he said a couple of things I could do before I move house. So would you consider this as I difference or just being polite. I guess he never was like that with his first partner, so could it be guilt? Who knows just thinking out loud :-)