Hi

good for you to protect yourself

You seem strong and in a good place making wise choices

The OP is usually a sick and desperate person
first they are dating a married person
I don't think they think so much of their future partner as a cheater
they are cheaters too
probably people with low esteem and little morals
Sometimes I read on the boards they have addiction issues
my XH wife 14 years his junior has psych issues Ive been told
she never actually met his kids while they were in this area
I like what u said and I feel the same

She can have XH..I wish them both the best
it it wasn't her it would have been someone
Mlcers usually get OP


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow