Vapo, buddy - I really value your insights and I agree 100%. I know I can not help her. I need to help me. Once I realized that it's not all my fault, as I was told everyday for months, it was like a giant weight being removed from my chest. Now, I'm on a new path. Giving up old habits, trying new things, blowing out the cobwebs, etc etc.
I liked what this guy had to say and it resonated with me and I wanted to see if anyone had any insights.
Not looking for a silver bullet - more looking for Chemotherapy. Something that is hard, expensive, takes lots of time, wants to make you quit over and over again. But in the end I'll be happy with the results whatever they are.
M:50 W:53 MR:20 D:21 S:17 S:11 BD-Sept 2015 Suspected PA Sept 2015-Confronted W & OM Dec 2015 Actually EA In house Sep:Jan/16-May 2016 W moved out:May 22 2016 OM-Intro Oct/17-On scene July/Aug 2017
