Getting out of in house S (8)

[Vapo]

I am getting over the fact that all my neighbors know now. That the house has sold and that I am day by day trying to get to my new house on my own and I should be able to breathe and not worry what I do or say that might not be DBing.

I know you feel less of a man because you got dumped, I've been there. It is not your fault. It is all her.

I am not pleading about invites, I asked once if I was getting an invite because I need to know for work. I have not asked since. I talk about it on here because it bothers me and it is an issue for me. Better here then to my W.

Vent away buddy... Talking about it helps and these boards are a life saver...

The contacting my family I guess is an option but also a door I cant close once it open.

You closed it once, you can close it again if need be... You need people in your corner and it seems to me you are lacking support (except for us, we're here for you).

That if I am not invited how can she expect me to have any type of R with her. Not inviting me, it to me the biggest slap in the face right now. Its one thing to say hey we need to have a S. I need to have space to save our MR. To give it a chance we need to S.

Where did she say she wants a relationship with you? If she wanted a relationship with you, she would not have left... You need to let her go, only then will there be an off chance she will come back. Drop the rope, start living, do not put your life on hold...

Its another thing to say you are not my family and I am excluding you from this wedding and every person that is invited to the wedding means more to us than you do.

Maybe I have it all wrong today. maybe I have been doing it wrong all along. Maybe I cant think straight. I will have to see what tomorrow brings.

Your kids are your family, soon you will realize that you will be OK, even if she does not return and that is such a liberating feeling. You will get there, do not worry. But again, you have to let her go. Do not believe anything she says, reread Sandi's rules, they are golden. How is your GAL, what are you doing for you? You need to relearn to love yourself. You have to be the most important person in your life...