Journaling continued... WAW came home about 30 minutes later and went to D17 room and closed the door. After a few minutes she came out and had tears in her eyes. I asked her if I could speak with her for a moment and she agreed. I apologized for my harshness earlier and advised it was because of my frustration with seeing our D17 breakdown and I feel that we all need some space to clear the air and take time on our own to think things through with level heads. I told her that her ongoing anger and the increased tension with each passing day that we feel in our home continues to escalate and we don't understand why as we are trying to just accept her decision and move forward. My WAW then shed some more tears and then said "Okay, your right I am angry at you and I am blaming you for our daughter not wanting to be with me. So here, I said it." I validated her perception and re stated my goals to just help the family, take care of our babies and help her do what it is she needs. She then told me that I can not help her. I validated her and said then I will be there to help our daughters. She then said that she will hurry up and move out before there is no more friendship to salvage. I did not reply.
Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017
It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine
