If you see some info or advice you like on another thread, copy it to yours. I remember loads of times wanting to reread something but not be able to find it.

Concentrate on learning and absorbing for now. Support others if you want. Don't pressure yourself to contribute. Rome wasn't built in a day.

R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together