Getting out of in house S (8)

[vise82]

Hey RAI,

Good to hear from you.

I re read FOGG's post, Yes I need to stop looking for every little sign as her maybe wanting to R. I find it hard to realize that she could be dating. I have thought about it and with me not snooping and her erasing text messages when I did. I have no way to know if she is not talking to another man. I do know her friend is trying to set her up with a guy that was the best man in her friends wedding. With living together she calls to tell me she is going to be late a couple of minute and when she will be home. I have seen she is now a club member for Victoria Secret as it came in the mail.

This is too much for me to realize unless I have straight out proof. The pain is to much to take for something I cant know for sure. This is why I choose to believe she is not dating.

Is it the best choice? I an reading into your response no.

On of the loses she has felt is me not going to her family events. But now I don't know if that is a loss to her as she is not inviting me to family events.

So for me being a prikc, wont that just justify her S?

As for the house its sold. I tried to hold out for as long as I could but she lawyered up and was playing the I will take you to court card.

You make some good points about my family. I was part of W family but with not being invited I guess that was only by W approval.

My friend asked mr if W knew that I was talking to him. No she doesn't. I could only come up that I have a lot to lose right now If she found out as the S agreement is not signed. But I felt bad even saying that. I don't know if its true, but I do know that W is happier if I don't talk to anyone that has nay connection to my family.

Yes I have lost some of myself and have found other parts.

I don't want to get hurt. But I also don't want to be payed with. I don't know If W is playing nice with me or if it is sincer.

I feel like asking her if there is another man. To have a R talk. to find out where she stands right now. Is she looking to date after moving out?

It questions that send me spinning a little.

W has emailed me to remind me not to tell the kids that she is going to the her new house tonight. She doesn't want them there.

Now I am thinking why not who is going to be there really?

I was stressed out with the sitch yesterday, just tired of W calling and asking for me to look after the kids while she goes her and there and picks up this. She get home and I tell her I was going to pick something up and she expected me to pick up S7 but it would have been tight for time to do that. I got frustrated and just said forget it I will go another time. We both ended up going together to pick up S7, s4 was with us.

But still I am trying my best to get through this all the while keeping the hope that she is being truthful to me. That the S is the best chance for us.