Thanks Lostman, I am definitely going to hit the gym tonight and then go out and play pool tomorrow night. Detachment is key, I just have to fake it till I make it.
Bigybiz, thanks for the props. I felt good about not snooping. I contacted OM's W, but only talked about work stuff. I do have all her contact info just in case and she has mine, in case she sees something fishy. I didn't tell her that though.