my wife is a waw! trying everything to save it!

[Lostman]

Cadet is right. Marriage didn't get broken in a hurry, so you can't look for the quick fixes. I spent the entire first month after BD looking for quick fixes and all it did was cause more pain and more hurt.

Going out to an amusement park can be fun, but it's just one fun day. Do it if you want to, but not because it will save the marriage (one activity and one days won't). Don't get into M/R conversations. Just go out and enjoy the moment.

Keep posting and keep reading.