A friend of hers told me that she likes the fact I enjoy staying home and spending time with her as opposed to going out, which is true I really would rather us be together at home instead of going out and "socializing" always. Occasionally we would go to events but for the most part it's just us. Is there a way I can use this to help me? I feel that GAL is counter active to something we both enjoy.

I will still GAL I just think I need to really pinpoint some very key things.

This friend also told me that she(W) thought I was very satisfying in bed. I know that a marriage isn't built soely on sex, but this information keeps making me think that if we did have sex it might be beneficial as it would release endorphins and may get her to see from another perspective. (No sex since 2/6/16)


First date 12/24/13
M 3/12/14
BD 2/8/16
Working on it alone since 2/8/16
Doing things wrong 2/8/16
Doing things different 3/12/16