Thank you Bigybiz, for both your words and your suggestions. I hear ya regarding being the better man. I have had opportunities to snoop and haven't, I know everything I need to. Now I just need to focus on me.

M:37 W:38
D:11,S:7,S:4
T:8, M:5
S:6/1/15 different beds
Physical Seperation 7/5/16
Startof NC 7/22/16