Putting your dog down during the D...ugh...double pain
Do you get to see your dogs at all?
The entire Divorce is hitting home on all fronts now. We spend weekends apart and my poor daughter of course has picked up on this.
The STBX is just starting to realize the rreality too of the financial aspects of this now and how scary it is for her. While she will be fine for a few years based on probably outcome of the settlement/alimony, and of course I want to ensure my Daughter is taken care of, she is now realizing all the stuff I took care of that she ignored and didn't care about.
it was one of the reasons that I checked out from her as she didn't care about how i was making it all work which was hurtful.
I will soon be out of there as living together in this sitch is too hard. We will have the dreaded D talk with our daughter probably in the next 2-3 weeks and I will be out maybe in april /may.
It will be lonely. I will need to pick up the dogs now and then to keep me company when my daughter isn't with me. Life is changing....and getting real
_________________________ Me-48 Spouse-WAW 52 Married for 10 years D7 ILYBNILWY 7/15 Suspect EA/PA 12/15 No confirmation/denial She files 1/2016 Working towards the Big D ...still in progress....