Wow that's a crazy story TxHubby, thanks for sharing.
Is you W glad now in retrospect for how things played out in the end?

My sitch is a little different. My W basically kicked me out in reaction to finding out about me going to Massage Parlours. But if you read my story closely, it's pretty clear that her EA with her boss had been going on probably as long as I was frequenting the MPs. To my knowledge, the PA started with her boss 4 weeks after she found out about my betrayal. So we are kind of madhatters except my side is not an affair.

Are there any madhatters on the board who want to key in?

Me37 W33
T:8 M:5
D3
BD 11/2015
EA+PA w boss 12/2015
S 3/2016

Im stronger because I had to be
Im smarter because of my mistakes
happier because of the sadness Ive known
and now wiser because I learned