Forging a new path

[bigybiz]

Melo - fight on. Women are much better at the detachment stuff it seems. We've all lived it for years e.g. "How are you - fine".

I'm glad you liked Dead pool. I'll put it on my list. Can I take my 10 year old?

In the end we need to be the best guys we want to be. We so want to change to bring them back - but intellectually we know it won't work.

Early early this morning I heard my WW/WAW on the phone or skype and I so wanted to eavesdrop. Then I remembered that more bad behavior is not the solution. Every action we take is going to be viewed as a threat/attack/etc. So better to take no action - so there is no reaction.

Weekends are tough and it's really easy for everyone to say - get a hobby, meet some friends, go to church. Those can seem like huge steps. I've started decluttering. I get a real charge out of tossing junk out that I'm never going to use again - and I'm not asking her input.

Finding any sense of accomplishment can really be a boost. So if you can't find a friend to hang out with - maybe clean up your tools, fix that thing that is broken, sweep the front steps, help the neighbor unload groceries. You might find a little bit of distraction and motivation to fight on.