Getting out of in house S (8)

[vise82]

Hey

We were fostering small rodents over the last couple of months. I did post about it, it was W idea and we as a family were involved in playing with them. Well everyone lost interest except me, I was cleaning the cage and had to remind W to clean it also. There was a lot of cleaning. Well W decided that unless I wanted to adopt them they should go back.

It was too much work to do on my own so I agreed to bring them back.

I don't know what that is all about. Why does she get all worked up about getting them only to just one day decide no one is interested in them let return them.

Sound all to familiar. I didn't want them because W is giving me the Dog in the S. The two do not mix well. Even the dog, it was what she wanted and I dint want, she used inheritance money to buy the dog. The dog treats her bad, but he also did me before I took him to training for months. But she doesn't want the dog and does not like the dog. I am not going to say not to taking the dog, but I thought she would want him, even more so that he is trained now. But the dog does not listen to her, and I guess she is not interested in doing the work to earn the respect of the dog like I did.

W told me that the invite to her place on Friday is off the table, she just said she doesn't want me to bring the kids to her place on Friday as she is just signing papers and doing quick measurements with her parents there.

I think she doesn't want me talking to her parents. This sunday I am doing nothing as there is a break in my GAL soccer and they are celebrating MIL birthday. They would invite me if they knew I was doing nothing.

I feel like I am not fighting enough for this MR, that with all this not inviting me to things I am not protesting enough. This Friday there is no reason why I couldn't bring the kids to see the place.

I just feel like she is isolating me from her family to justify her actions. If they seen us on a normal day they would see that we do function well together. That we interact like normal for the most part.

She doesn't even want me to mention that she is going to her new place tonight to the kids.

This brings up the issue about her brothers wedding. I am still mad about not going. Before BD when I was going she was bringing her best friend to look after the kids at the hotel so that we could have fun at the reception part. Well now I am not invited but her best friend is still going. I could mention that in the S agreement I have first right to look after the kids if she is getting someone else to look after the kids for more them four hours.

I don't want to go just to look after the kids. Its just at our wedding it was this big deal to not invite my parent because of a lawsuit they put on me. What did I do that she has to go to the length of not inviting me. It just stings. I don't get it. I have mentioned it. I asked if I was going or not, she brushed it off saying its her brother decision.

I just feel like it not W day, I am family, my kids will be there, why am I not invited?

Kids don't know I am not going. I will be telling them I wanted to go but I was not invited. I said the same thing for last sunday dinner.

I guess this follow the two lives theory. That the W at home is different then the W at work or at the in-laws. Out of the house she plays the poor single mom, but at home she is anything but that.