People don't spend 24/7 on this site. Most people here are dealing with our own issues and problems, as well as the rest of life. People reach out to offer support or advice at their own rhythm.Sometimes that may seem slow.
Keep posting. The more people know, the more likely someone will come to help.


R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together