I agree with Shotgun about you being absolutely right about your H. His issues will just follow him about from relationship to relationship unless he realises it's all inside him and deals with it. Just incredibly sad for the people he hurts along the way. I also agree with what you said about the OW. I've never understood how someone can trust somebody who they knowingly are the OW/OM to! How do they believe in all honestly that they won't do the same to them? If I were her I'd be feeling incredibly insecure about the fact that after 3 years I haven't met his children! Not very committed to her it seems.
Well done for taking the steps to see a solicitor to protect yourself financially. That must have been very hard. The thought fills me with dread. At least H is doing something right if your solicitor said he is offering a good deal. Stay strong. x
