Thanks V, GWH, and CWOL. I was going to take everyone's advise about just filing but just found out... problem solved! WW contacted me tonight. Asked me about when I was going to filed the complaint and that it was a bit silly I am a lawyer but will not "do it out of spite." LOL. I replied that I have no problem filing it and she continued to yell at me on the phone saying just like the old me, that I want to force her to spend the money on the filing fees. She must have a very different memory of our marriage, cause my savings and checking seems to show I kept paying everything.
Anyway she continued: "I would like to let get things moving and I am letting a lot of hurtful things you have done to me go and trying my best to get along with you..."
Wow, I was confused I thought it was her who cheated not me??? Well I told her I was going to file but instead of tomorrow like she demanded, it would be when I got paid next Thursday. She then demanded I email her the docs and she would file.
So that is what I will do. I will email her everything and let her file.
Me 41 W 33 M 2013 Suspect A 11/15 Confirm A 1/16 She moved out 2/14/16 Stepson 13 Stepson 16