WW, My Addiction, Patience, and Hope - III

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Thanks GB. I always appreciate your responses. A Kindred Spirit for me. Sandi, you, Mowgli, Zues, and a couple others have been invaluable.

I'm seeing success at my new manager's job, and I've been open about what's happening with the 2 salespeople with me, as they have both gone through divorce. Haven't told them everything, but they need to know that I'm not upset at them when my WW throws a curve ball at me. The success is wonderful in my life right now. God's hand has guided me so well. What if I had left my life to Him, rather than pulling on the wheel up to now? I guess we'll always want to pull on the wheel.

Looks like the basics of the D are now set. Up for discussion are little things like paintings, pots and pans, and when I can get my name off the house, when she can refi, and when the whole shooting match will be officially over.

I expect things to get worse before they get better, as my WW starts to realize her fantasy can't come true, and the plan B is drifting off to sea. Excited to see where God takes me in my life. I know that joint custody will be tougher now than what I envisioned, but that I can be a great dad, and a rock for me kids. Gotta keep on working on my boundaries with my WW.