It sounds like you guys have a very complex and intertwined situation, with a shared business, so I would make copies of the statements and give them to your L, and send the originals back to her with a note saying "these were in the pile by mistake".

Don't say anything to the person you visit tomorrow - spend your time enjoying his company and be an enjoyable person to be with so you get invited back.

If he asks, be brief.

Stay away from the Facebook-page.

You would eventually regret it.


M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17