Have you already spoken with him on the phone? If not, postpone the call until you have a firm strategy in place. Buy yourself some time by not answering when he calls. You could follow that up with a quick text saying that you are in the middle of something and can't talk right now, include a if that is your style so it doesn't come off as mean.
You are at a very fragile point in this relationship and it would be extremely helpful to know what your next move should be. Feel free to give me a call at 303-444-7004 to discuss how we can best help you determine what to do next.
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