Is it wrong from me to act and file for D? I can no longer take this roller coaster ride. I would prefer to improve myself and rebuild the R with her after the D at this point unless by some miracle she has an epiphany which I doubt will happen.
Her expectations are so high I can't keep up. She has an excuse for every action I take to stay away from the R no matter how positive the outcome. The fact that I had everything in the works and was moving forward with moving to Toronto was not enough for her to work on the R, so why would I go?
H-46 XW-38 T-7 M-6 S-9,8,8,6,4 S 11/30/15, I filed 12/8/15 EA 2/1/16 D dismissed 3/24/16 PA 3/18/16 confirmed 4/22/16 XW files for D 4/1/16 - D final 11/17/16 Finally moving forward...
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H-46 XW-38 T-7 M-6 S-9,8,8,6,4 S 11/30/15, I filed 12/8/15 EA 2/1/16 D dismissed 3/24/16 PA 3/18/16 confirmed 4/22/16 XW files for D 4/1/16 - D final 11/17/16 Finally moving forward...
Would really appreciate any advice you have based on my last posts. I know that W filed now because I am not moving up to Toronto but was it correct for me to have my boundary be that she not date anymore?
I just could not be a door mat any longer in this R. If she wants to go have another R I am good with letting her go.
Today she calls and wants to discuss how to split assets. She also wanted to find out where I am moving since the house sold. I did not tell her I rescinded the offer but I have my L working on saving my home now also.
All her deceptions have now put us in more financial ruin.
I feel I can no longer discuss anything with her because she just wants to get everything over with quickly while I am letting the system take care of the process.
H-46 XW-38 T-7 M-6 S-9,8,8,6,4 S 11/30/15, I filed 12/8/15 EA 2/1/16 D dismissed 3/24/16 PA 3/18/16 confirmed 4/22/16 XW files for D 4/1/16 - D final 11/17/16 Finally moving forward...
