He said I need to take care of myself. I have not gained any weight back that I have lost.
He also feels that I still have resentment towards her even though I don't think I do. I still care about her and wish things would be different but I have to stop asking her to reconcile. I just don't think I should expose myself to living in the same city just so she can cake eat and have me available when she feels and use the boys as an excuse. It is 25% more expensive to live there and if we are separated then it makes things even more difficult yet she does not understand that.
Yesterday she could not believe I changed my mind about transferring to Toronto. I cannot give anymore without getting some respect from her and that would mean no more OM.
H-46 XW-38 T-7 M-6 S-9,8,8,6,4 S 11/30/15, I filed 12/8/15 EA 2/1/16 D dismissed 3/24/16 PA 3/18/16 confirmed 4/22/16 XW files for D 4/1/16 - D final 11/17/16 Finally moving forward...