I have one more negative thought...but one that is necessary to keep.
I am not sure if I should file. Living in limbo can be dangerous to me. I was reading that financially my husband can build up debt ( I don't know if he would do this ), he can leave state (he has talked about this) and laws would change. Probably more stuff too.
I don't want to be the one to do it. For many reasons. I will have to discuss with an attorney again, but at 500 bucks an hour I don't like arranging meeting. I need to be sure I am going to do it. I also do not always trust attorneys, because I recognize they have agendas too .
