WW hope to reconcile

[J5K]

So DB coach says that I really have not changed. He says that I continue to be as much of a roller coaster as she is.

I said it is time for me to drop the rope. I cannot let someone continue to manipulate me into doing things and not get anything in return. I value who I am too much and have recently realized this.

I know from W's perspective that she will validate she is correct, that I haven't changed since I am not moving to Toronto, but I am not going to be a door mat either and allow her to justify her actions of dating an OM to be OK. That is my boundary. I have more self respect for myself than that and will not allow her to make me feel guilty for choosing this path instead.

I suppose time will tell if she will ever wake up and see what a good person I am and come back, in the mean time we will be growing apart and both love our 5 boys the best we can.