I don't snoop. Not because I have a moral issue with it but because what's the point. She either ends up staying married or divorcing. Snooping to manipulate the outcome, is to manipulate her and I don't want that. If she chooses me she has to come to that decision on her own. I did snoop for a while when this all started. I have thought about, usually when I'm tempted and have decided no, I will not. Her choice is 100% hers. That might seem like leaving up to fate and my response to that is exactly.
“Water doesn't know where it's going to flow, it just flows.” ― Bert McCoy
I like the excel at life website. I will check out the info, thanks. In regards to making the most of the time she is gone. I do what I want and enjoy it. They are pleasant distractions whether she is on a trip or just at work. As you know there are those brief moments though when a reflective man struggles. There can be no joy if there is no sadness. They are one in the same.
“Sometimes you just have to take the pie in the face.” ― Bert McCoy
