Originally Posted By: TimR
Anyway, this piece of information has brought me to think maybe I should just file and let that be that. I was waiting for her to file, I was going to sign right away anyway. I just did not want to be the one to pay for everything, since she never paid for anything. Now I am thinking maybe I will just file. If she incurred a debt it could still go against me, so I would help protect me. I have been debating this for awhile now, and am going to let it sit before I do.


I think you should just file. The cost of filing should be minimal compared to your legal exposure if she goes off and signs a bunch of stuff right? Buy that diamond ring she always wanted?

Two OM's under her belt means she's not recovering any time soon.


Me-LBH, 48
Spouse-WW, 48
Married for 19 years
Son, 12
BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding)
BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA)
WW filed D February 2016
WW moved out April 2016