So I just discovered my W purchased herself a "toy" she has always told me she wasn't interested in "toys" and it hasn't been used it's brand new. Maybe she is longing for sex that she has decided to experiment. She has always said she doesn't like to play with herself. With this discovery plus the fact she hasn't been taking bc I feel confident there is no OM. This discovery has put me in a hysterical mode right now though because it was a shocking discovery. I am not appalled but I just never thought she would make such a purchase as every time I tried to introduce toys she always "freaked out"

Thoughts?

First date 12/24/13
M 3/12/14
BD 2/8/16
Working on it alone since 2/8/16
Doing things wrong 2/8/16
Doing things different 3/12/16