Be careful she is not temp checking you. Just making sure she still has you wrapped around that finger. If I were you I would slow down with the repeated private talks. Don't be rude but right now she is saying dinner NOW and you say ok. When she says jump, you jump. Oh I know you want to cling to anything possible good but she is making sure her back up plan (you) is still available. Distance yourself. Sorry I know that is not what you want to hear but IMHO it is what you need to do. Make sure to keep GALing!
Me 41 W 33 M 2013 Suspect A 11/15 Confirm A 1/16 She moved out 2/14/16 Stepson 13 Stepson 16