Doing everything wrong...

[PacLove]

Met with a L today, she basically said I'm doing everything right as part of the separation. The fact D is staying with me will be good in the long run, and financially in our state everything is community property up until D-day and income after Separation is each his own, so the only thing I need to worry about is she doesn't go on a massive spending spree and still contributes to our joint liabilities which is in her best interest if she doesn't want to risk her credit.