Hang in there. Chin up. Affairs and Divorces affect kids. The AP and OM/OW usually say the kids will be better, but it's projection. Kids go through the pain of not being able to fix mom or dad, or both of them.
Continue to love her and give her attention. Have you taken her out for a cup of coffee or a lunch lately?
M46, EXWW46 M15 T17 D20, S19, D13 M - Addiction since 1998 W EA/PA #1 2013/2014 W EA #2 June 2015... BD 1 Big D talk 9/15 BD 2 - EA/PA disc 10/30/15 Served D 1/22/16 Divorced 5/25/16 (yes, that fast!)