Still, at this point you can try DB'ing but honestly you let it get away from you probably too far. My advice is quit worrying about the dying M and focus on your own future post-M.
Thanks for your candour TxHubby. I'm starting to loose hope of a reconciliation at this point. It's been 4 months since BD and 1 month of separation. I've been going dark and being detached while child and GAL focused.
What does anyone else think? Is this the right approach given my situation? Sandi are you there? Should I let go of any hope of reconciliation given both our betrayals?
Me37 W33 T:8 M:5 D3 BD 11/2015 EA+PA w boss 12/2015 S 3/2016
Im stronger because I had to be Im smarter because of my mistakes happier because of the sadness Ive known and now wiser because I learned