At one point he told me he was doing me a favor , and in ten years I would thank him. (Ring a bell, Cil?) During that convo, I told him to go have his pity party somewhere else.

I like your response to this. My H is still telling me how I feel about him....no matter how I act around him! Its hard to validate someone when they are telling you how you feel about them and they're WRONG. I have a hard time agreeing with his feelings when H can't respect mine as my own.



M-51 H-54
2D-27 and 25
M-26 yrs
Bombshell and IHS 7-29-15
He moved out 10-3-15
D filed 1-27-16
D final 10-27-16

Kindness, kindness, kindness.